Happy Valentines Day?
Thank you all for your well wishes & advice, unfortunately hubby has decided he doesn't want to be with me & has left me. Right now I am trying not to wallow in self pity although at times that is very hard. Thankfully I have great friends around me on here & out here. And right now, that is so much of a comfort.
I'll be back when I've taken stock.
Thank you all.
I'll be back when I've taken stock.
Thank you all.
posted by Aims at 8:04 PM
23 Comments:
I'l Be thinking of you, be strong, get drunk and sing some kareokee. HUGS :)
I'm so sorry. I'll be sending you my best thoughts.
Well here's a Valentine Hug for you.
Be safe...
I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup,hun.When I broke up with Ray,I had a really neat person have me make a list of all the good things I could think of about Ray....then she asked me to make a list of all the negative things about him....and when compared them,I was shocked to see how many bad things I listed,compared to the few good things.
Change is hard,I do know how overwhelming it may seem....but the old saying is SO true,hun "Time heals all wounds".It really does.I walked around lost at first,and missed him alot at times...gosh,I still miss him sometimes...but I drag out that "bad" list and remember WHY I left to begin with.
Hang in there.It will get easier in time.
And Walker....OMG,I TRIED that route.Well,the drinking part.If the bar had Kareoke,I prolly would have done that too!!LOL...but unfortunately,I wound up one sick puppy.But the getting drunk part was a blast! It will be a while before I'll be able to drink Gin and grapefruit and Hot Damn,that's for sure.
Also sending a Valentine Hug!
Oh Aims, I'm so sorry to read this. Lots of love and hugs to you. I'll be thinking of you. Hang in there hun.
*hugs*
Sorry to hear this..
Sending a Valentine hug..
I am so sorry that he was a jerk. So Im sending you tons of hugs to let you know there is a friend out here. "hugs"
My heart goes out to you. I can`t imagine the pain of having a husband walk out on you. I lost my husband after over 50 years of marriage and miss him still.
I once told my Daughter to make the same lists that Tammi mentioned. He was great till he drank and then was abusive. In June she will be marrying a great fellow who treats her good. So, for her it turned out for the best.
Keep trying to smile. Don`t give him the power to hurt you anymore. I wish you the best future- with ot without him.
Sending you a hug from one strong woman to another.
((((HUGS))))
((((((((((Hugsssss)))))))))
Hugs and positive thoughts headed your way.
Hi, Aims, Walker always talks very highly of you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this.
I think Tammi's idea is a wonderful one. I did that myself after a breakup last year at my own mother's urging. When I saw the cons that outweighed the pros I had to be honest with myself and admit he did me a HUGE favor. Romantically I'm quite happy now. And it shows in other areas of my life as well. :)
So remember through the good and bad days that YOU are a wonderful person...and while you need time to heal the right one will come along and love will be ten times better because you will be appreciated for YOU.
And one of these days you won't even bat an eye if you see him or come across him...just be like, oh I forgot about him. I promise.
Well here is another hug
And another HUG!!!!!!!!!!, it does sound like midlife crisis. Take good care of yourself! Eat chocolate, laugh as much as you can, cry when you need to. Keep friends and family close. Hug!
I'm so sorry!!
*HUGS*
Aw, I'm so sorry to hear the news. You don't seem to hold any anger towards him, so that is a good start to getting through this.
My sis has decided to leave her husband. They have a 5 year old and a 2 year old. It will be tough. I didn't realize how hard it would be on ME and MY PARENTS. If you have a strong support group, it will be easier.
Oh dear, he just went for the little break thing you mentioned earlier? Hope he comes back soon and everything gets fixed up even better than before. Or, not if that isn't what you want to happen. Sorry about your Valentine's Day, HUGS to you!
Oh sweetie...I am so sorry you're going thru this now!
(((((HUGS)))))
Hi Aims, glad to see you got out and about in the blog world and pleased that you got a smile or two from holtieshouse.
Don't let this heartache thing get on top of you, it seems that part of life for most of us includes the broken heart and shattered dreams that you are going through at present.
Some relationships stabalise, some improve, some disintergrate, no matter which happens we don't die from it and while it seems hard to believe at times, it does all get better with time.
(((( More Hugs))))
I am so sorry.I've only just got around to reading blogs.I hope your okay.Take care
Lots of Hugs
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oh no. i didn't know! i was thinking something else...i'm so sorry. I'd say a million things right now since i've been through it before but i also know you need to sort out where you're 'at'. please be gentle with yourself...no matter how little this means right now, you WILL get through it...
That's a major kick in the ass. I've never been through it but I can say that if he wanted out and left that's got to better than just pretending to go through the motions for years and years.
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